Christmas Time

I love Christmas time. I can't say it enough. This year I planned to use the girls' dresses that I bought for our pictures as their Christmas dresses to wear to church. But then I made an impulse buy when I see these super cute tights and dresses online. Clara's fit pretty good, but Hazel's was way too big. Too bad, she wore it anyway. I just made her pull it up in some of the pictures so I could see her boots and tights. :) Before church (the Sunday before Christmas), we went and played in the neighbor's leaves.

I sure love these darlings.

That same Sunday was our big Christmas program at church. Somehow I agreed to play the flute for one of the songs. I haven't played the flute in public since Jr. High. That's a long time! Anyway, I practiced like crazy (our choir pianist recorded the song onto a CD so I could practice with accompaniment as much as I wanted - that helped) and everything went pretty smoothly. I was proud of myself because I only played the flute for 4 years or so before I switched to the oboe and I haven't played it in front of people since. I have a flute because I needed an instrument when we first got married and the $100 flute was more affordable than the piano I wanted. Anyway, it was a great program. I love having so much music and song focused directly on our Savior and His birth. What a glorious thing to celebrate. Plus, I get to sit on the stand for the entire meeting and watch Jason take care of the girls. That makes me smile and fall in love even more.

On Christmas Eve, we stuck with tradition and opened a gift (jammies! I love that I can still get matching footie pj's from Land's End despite their age gap) and then went to Grandma and Grandpa Melzer's for caroling and lights in Grandpa's truck, donuts and hot chocolate and a story from Grandpa. He told the story of his Uncle Jack again this year, the firefighter that risked his life on Christmas Eve to try and save a lady and her babies.   

Christmas morning was calm and fun. Growing up, Christmas morning always seemed a little crazy, but I guess that's the difference between 7-9 kids and two. :) Hazel got blocks and Clara got Legos. They got plenty of other things too and loved the Barbies they got. 

We went over to my mom's later for our traditional biscuits and gravy and to hang out. I couldn't resist a few pictures of them in Brother Allen's yard... happens every year. 

Clint pointed out James wouldn't be around next Christmas since he'll be on his mission. Awww! So I took a picture of him looking like the Michelin man in his new snowboarding attire and then a close up one of him and I. He's a sweet kid and I'm going to miss him, but it will be fun to have a missionary in the family again. We've had a dry spell.

Hazel chugging soda and pictures with Grandpa Melzer.

We went home and Ryan and Kathryn and kids came over for a little bit. Christmas always feels like a long day, but it's also over before I know it. Glad we're only 9 months away from the next Christmas instead of 12 since it's taken me three months to blog Christmas 2013.

Clara's Birthday

Last year when I was reading Charlie and The Chocolate Factory to Clara, I decided it'd be so fun to do a party around that theme. The more I thought and planned, I decided maybe we should just go have the party at the Cerreta Chocolate Factory in Glendale. So we made the invitations be the golden tickets, attached them to candy bars and waited for the party. I think I was just as excited as Clara. 

We got to have her party on her actual birthday, Saturday, December 21st. Jason drove my mom's van and I drove ours and we had so much fun! It was really hands on and the lady that did our tour and everything else was funny and fun. Since it was a Saturday, none of their machines were supposed to be running, but we lucked out and got to watch them make caramel. The kids got to help package chocolates, break up a big bar of chocolate, make their own chocolate pizza (even filling their pizza form with chocolate themselves) and Clara got to put the broken chocolate in the melter (whatever it's called). It was great. 

I made a sack lunch for each girl and we ate there and they let us open presents there too. I didn't have to do cake, goody bags, decorations or clean my house and the girls all loved it. It was totally worth the small price I paid for each kid. Oh yeah, also, lots of delicious samples. I'd definitely do another party there. In fact, Hazel keeps saying she wants to go there for her party.  

This final picture I took of Clara before coming home really sums up her personality. She is full of life and I love her so very much. At the ripe old age of seven, this girl loves to read (like LOVES to read), still lets me hold her, still sits on my lap and kisses me on the lips, still loves fruits and vegetables (mushrooms, mini peppers and broccoli top the list), loves meat like her dad and loves to deep clean. She is a bit dramatic but is so logical, reasonable and responsible. I am constantly grateful that she is my oldest because she is so patient, understanding and forgiving, which is what I need as I try to figure out what I'm doing as a mom. She is independent, but very social. She is giving and selfless and just wants to do what's right. She loves helping me in the kitchen and loves animals a lot (like a lot, a lot). She's got my wacky ribs and is obsessed with paper/organizing/pens/office supplies/you get the picture, just like I was (and still am). She really is a gem and such an extraordinary little girl.

Left: Clara and Hazel showing off their chocolate pizzas. Right: When we got home, Clara got to open presents from us. She seemed most excited about Charlie and The Chocolate Factory movie. She also got a scooter and a few books. It was a really fun day and yes, I had Clara and Hazel wear matching outfits. :)  

December 2013 - Part I

With Christmas and two birthdays, December is busy and will likely always be extra busy for us. It's easily my favorite time of year and all the celebrations we get to have only make me like it more. I love the lights, the Spirit of Christmas, the reflections on our Savior, the cookie parties, the traditions, the weather, the magic, the movies, the opportunities to serve, the music, new PJ's(!) and everything in between.

So here we go... Clara's school winter concert|||cookies at Aunt Angela's|||the yard decorated by our Primary Presidency for Clara's birthday|||Clara helping me get neighbor gifts ready (I love that she's getting old enough to help me with so many things, it is so convenient!)|||our house looked like this for a while after Christmas - legos and barbies every where|||annual holiday time dinner with high school friends at Matt & Lindsay's

chocolate face|||advent from Aunt Lilly|||mustache growing results from "Movember" (glad that didn't last long)|||Christmas Relief Society dinner - super fancy this year|||during Hazel's music class, Clara and I went on mini-dates|||she wants to do whatever I do|||new winter coats|||football game projected on the wall (that room has come in useful in ways I never would've imagined)|||Italian indexing projected on the wall - ha!|||Hazel doing my hair|||we went caroling with the bishopric and got invited in to enjoy this slide for a bit|||Hazel thinks she runs so fast in her "camping" shoes

Clara's school gets out a day before the public schools. It's a little silly, but I like it. This year, we went to the zoo with Amy, Ally and Olivia. It was awesome. It was a little overcast and there was hardly anyone there. We fed the giraffes and Clara absolutely loved it while all the other girls were horrified.

Jason got asked to be Santa Clause at our ward Christmas party. So funny! Clara said she knew it was him by his voice and his hands. See that picture on the bottom right? I tried to get a picture of me kissing Santa, but that beard just kept getting in the way.

Matching mustaches.

When Jason and I got married, I had a cheap little Christmas tree from Wal Mart. I kept saying I'd buy one on clearance after Christmas. But everything was always sold after Christmas. Then, I bought one for $5 at a garage sale 7 or so years ago. Again, the plan was to get one on clearance, but that wasn't happening. Our tree was too wide for the room and shed ("shred" according to Clara) as much as a real tree. So this year, after many headaches, stomach aches and looking at lots of trees, Jason talked me into buying a new tree. I was sick after we put it up because in my mind, it looked way too big for the room and was about to hit the ceiling (a few feet away in reality). I even made Melissa come look at it to make sure it didn't look ridiculous. I think I overreacted. :) The girls love that it has colored and white lights. I don't love that I can't set it up myself, but it is a pretty tree and someday when we have furniture that fits in our living room, it'll probably look even better.

Date night with Clara out to Macaroni Grill and then to the Nutcracker. It was so fun! I love this special little girl and having her company during a nice dinner and to enjoy the ballet made for a really fantastic night. I love this tradition.

Hazel found my red lip gloss while I was on a conference call. Oh, Hazel.

Temple lights. We went early again this year and it was so nice. It wasn't too cold and there weren't many people. Year after year, I love how beautiful this light display is.

Family Pictures 2013

I made up my mind to get family pictures this year. I called my friend Tiffany on Thursday and she had an opening on Saturday. So I had a day to get outfits together. :/ I had my dress and the girls' skirts and bought everything to match those. I bought so many options it was pathetic. That night, Melissa came over and helped me decide. I had the girls try different combinations to see what looked good together. 

The next morning we had our pictures fairly early. I wasn't prepared for the girls' hair and was just feeling anxious. I was pretty worried about how the pictures would turn out, especially since I'd finally decided to pay for family picture and we all know the thought of wasting money drives me more nuts than just about anything. The kids were grumpy, Jason was grumpy, it was hot, the setting wasn't that pretty and I didn't think to bring any bribes for the kids. I told them we could get ice cream if they smiled so after we were done, we went to Sonic for food and treats. 

When I got the pictures back, I realized I didn't have anything to worry about. Tiffany is awesome at capturing moments and personalities. We don't have a perfectly posed family shot, but there are so many good pictures, especially of my girls. And perfectly posed pictures just give the wrong impression about reality. These are real. I'll have to try and figure out how to fix the glare on Clara's glasses next year. Anyway, here's a "few" of my favorites. All pictures were taken by Tiffany Haynes. 

November 2013

Nothing like blogging an entire, busy month in one post. But, I'm getting closer to being caught up and then I can put more thought into these write ups instead of slapping some pictures up with a quick caption. For now, I'm tired, so it's going to be quick (at least that's my intention).

We went to Snowflake on November 3rd for Madison's baby blessing. It also happened to be Connie's birthday, so we celebrated that too. It would have been nice to spend a few days there, but Jason had already planned a hunting trip on Saturday so it was a quick up-and-down-in-one-day trip.

Earth and Science Day at ASU. My favorite was the infared camera. You can see how Hazel's cheeks were redder than the rest of her face and how the warmth from Lilly's hand stayed on the glass after she took it off. Bottom row: create an earthquake, Mars rover, snack time, water salinity, ph of things and rockets.

I turned 32 on 11.12.13. It was a pretty cool day to have a birthday. I had to work, but that night, Jason and I went to Federal Pizza (not impressed) and then that night I went out for dessert with Karen, Lisa, Beka and Amy. I am so grateful for good friends.

Melissa helped me can apple pie filling...our pumpkins rotted in like two days...Hazel putting apples away...Hazel peeling a carrot...the contents of my purse - way too many pens...I made tender, moist chicken for the first time in my life by baking it in the oven...fun car track at Grandma's...Clara usually prefers a salad at Costco...sharing a bed...sharing a chair...Hazel watching me work when she couldn't sleep.

Her hair is crazy...park day...this is what Saturday mornings look like...no words...posed...unposed...feeding the horse at the park...Hazel helping wash potatoes for dinner...Clara doing FHE with her sidekick Hazel by her side

Crazy hair day: I took pipe cleaners and made her hair stick out and she thought it was the best.

Karen's baby shower...I let Clara stay up late (read: past 7:30) and go to target with me and she fell asleep in the cart...little copy cat...setting up their office to work alongside me...one night Hazel curled up into the bend of Jason's knee on our bed...best little dental patient...Kristie was in town and came over to visit...Hazel got an ice cream cone while VT

 

We finally got a new light for above our kitchen table... one of those things you think you'll do right away and then delay it forever. It was such a pain to change it with our six foot ladder. And then the plastic wire caps popped off and sparks shot out the light. I screamed (I was inside while Jason turned the electricity back on) and the girls were scared the rest of the day that our house was going to burn down. The good news is, we got it fixed (about 30 seconds before Thanksgiving dinner with my family) and I absolutely love it. It is so bright and beautiful. I wish I would have done it years ago. :)

lunch with old co-workers/friends (where I killed a bee that wouldn't leave us alone and the waitress almost cried about it)...impractical dinner out...her preppy little uniform makes me smile...watching Jason's softball game (in their new matching black boots)...traps in the closet...I got bit by an ant and my foot was SO swollen...our oranges started turning orange, well, mostly just yellow in November...organizing my pantry...beautiful sky

Margo came to play....

We live close to Cracker's and when Suzie, her girls and Kristie were in town, we met up for lunch. The weather was beautiful so Hazel and I walked across the street.

My dad started planning hiking trips every now and then. This was the first I did with him, The Wind Caves. My mom walked around the desert, Ryan ran around the base of the mountain and my dad and I hiked to the top. The scenery was beautiful, I loved seeing the sunrise and two hours or so to visit with my dad by myself is pretty rare. I'll treasure the memories of these hikes forever.

Mason and Jordyn got baptized. Afterwards, we had a luncheon at the church. Unrelated to the baptism: Hazel paints, Jordyn and Clara are ninjas, Hazel puts on makeup, I threw out over a dozen of peaches I canned and it made me so sad, my girls snuggled in the cart at Costco and Clara got a bird that chirps when people walk into a room.

Clara and Hazel looked so cute in the clothes they wore for family pictures. I bribed them to let me take pictures of them after church. They were mostly being silly, but I think it's a reflection of their fun personalities.

We hosted my family's Thanksgiving dinner on Wednesday night. I LOVE having a big room for hosting big dinners. That might be my very favorite part of this house (second to the yard, of course). The awesome turkey veggie tray came from Angela.

The next day, Thanksgiving, we hosted Jason's family's Thanksgiving dinner at our house. A few of his siblings came (Kevin and Lamar, Landry and Keirsten planned on coming until their kids got sick), his parents and his Uncle Randall and all of their kids, spouses and grandkids (with the exception of Zach). I loved eating outside. Clara loved eating a turkey leg. :)

That night we went shopping. There was a super long line in Wal Mart but I really wanted what I went to buy. After waiting in line behind a friend in our ward for about five minutes, I asked him to buy my stuff and I'd write him a check. :) It was the best idea ever. I took Lamar home, picked up some other people and then we went to a few more stores. Always fun and interesting. It's usually not worth the "deals" but worth the company and the memories.