Every year, Jason's family has a huge family reunion, very affectionately referred to by all involved as 'The Reunion'. It's always in the same place and always the same weekend. It's not just his parent's family, nor his grandma's family. It's his great grandparents and their descendants, all her siblings and their families. This year not quite 300 people were there and I am pretty sure that was on the low side. Enough history, back to my tantrum (yeah, me, not Clara). I love camping, but the week before the reunion I sat staring at everything on my plate for the upcoming week. I had a lot going on and I was certain there was no way I'd fit "preparing for a weekend of camping" on there. I told Jason I didn't want to go, and he asked why. He wondered what the big deal was. It wasn't really that I didn't want to go, I just didn't want to deal with the stuff I normally deal with that makes it a big deal. The "big deal" was: 1.) planning the meals for the weekend (I might love to cook in my modern kitchen, but being limited to an ice chest and a little camp stove dismisses that love ever so quickly and dampens my excitement for meal planning), 2.) gathering and doing necessary food prep prior to leaving (i.e. measuring out oil, we don't have room for my 2 gallon bucket), 3.) cooking while camping (see #1), 4.) doing dishes while camping (I dislike this more than cooking while camping) and 5.) unpacking all the clothes, food and camping gear upon returning home. He didn't understand what the big deal was, so my only option was to throw a tantrum. I kindly (very kindly, even with a smile on my face) told him the only way we were leaving Friday is if he did everything I normally do. I did help plan the meals and I did give him a list of things we needed and things that needed to be done (including food prep type things). I was able to get all my work done by Thursday night and I packed mine and Clara's bags. Then I left the rest to Jason. I'm pretty sure this "deal" (what is a one-sided 'deal' called? :)) is how I'll expect all subsequent camping trips to be. Jason got all the food ready, he helped cook and do dishes all weekend long and when we got home, he helped get everything put away so it didn't sit in our front room for a week. All his help plus being in the mountains, spending time with family, making new friends and being free from a cell phone and computer made for a fantastic weekend.
The highlights...

PS Now I know why I put this post off for so long... finding, editing and uploading the pictures took over two hours.

14 comments:
Ugh don't you hate when the posts take forever to post?
1. Love the idea of making Jason do everything. I'm going to try that sometime. On Brenden I mean. When he doesn't understand why I don't like something.
2. Clara is so big. It scares me how fast time goes by. I remember her in her infant carrier and now she's like not even a toddler pretty much.
3. I love her sweetness and that she let you take a picture after she face planted into the dirt and even smiled for it. ha ha cracks me up. What a trooper.
4. You look great for only using a plastic bag thingie as a shower.
Yay! I'm so glad you ended up going! Those veggie chip thingies are one of Cooper's FAVORITES! (Thanks goodness they're free of allergens, too.) I remember taking some "baby wipe" showers a few times at girls camp this summer. Those are awesome. Hey at least we try. It's sure a lot better than nothing. :)
You're the camping queen--complete with baby wipe showers. I love the afghan you won. And seeing all those little cousins interact is so funny.
the 2 hours was worth it babee! Adorable pics of Clara! What a great camping trip. keep the pics coming!
Your ultimatum gave the rest of us courage to make our husbands take it up a notch! (I think most of them will do whatever they're asked if we will relinquish a little control.) Clara is a very cute little camper!
Josh's family does that same thing for labor day and this year being 38 weeks pregnant i made josh do it all and i loved it!
looks like you had a great time! i'm glad you enjoyed it, before & after as well:) Go Jason!
Love the afghan!! Looks like you guys had so much fun.
When I saw Clara at church this Sunday she looked really big to me. Like she's losing her little baby/toddler face. She looks big in all of those pics too. She's going to be quite the looker when she grows up.
Thanks for spending the time - It was worth it for us!
And I hope you've watched Man vs. Wild, and know that you should have pictures of at least one of you biting into that grub and the splooshes that should be on the camera from the explosion of guts. I just can't believe you left that part out. "Ptthaaaa" is how it tastes, I believe.
Good work Jason, I'm impressed. And I love the "egg" picture - awesome.
lesson learned: tantrums give you what you want.
i'm hoping to arrange my friday so i can come hang out and paint pumpkins with you and clara.
That's how every post is for me. Hours!
So glad you went and were able to have a fun time.
Everyone knows if they want me to go anywhere for vacation there has to be a toilet, shower and a kitchen sink...which means camping is out of the question!
Good for Jason for giving you all that help - I think that "one sided deal" is called bribery or blackmail. Very nice! ;) I love the picture of all three of you. So cute!
That two hours was worth it (to me anyway). There was lots of awesomeness in that post! :)
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